I prefer to spend my time only with the people i am connecting with. Is that wrong?! … written by the well known romanian writter Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
I prefer to spend my time only with the people i am connecting with. Is that wrong?! … written by the well known romanian writter Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
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Today i went to a river ...into the mountains.
10 years ago ... no one knew that place.
You could go there and be just you ... and the nature.
We were there in the morning.
Only few people around and it was the perfect atmosphere to connect with the nature.
If you know the result of this ... actually ... the therapy of connecting with the nature ..: i am sure you have this trip in your mind all the time.
I left my family in there and went for one hour to walk on a path parallel with the river.
But when i came back i was totally surprised.
The area became very crowed, lots of people listening loud music ... and my desire of connecting to the nature ... became mission impossible.
I totally disliked what i saw around.
A crowd of people that came to the mountains to eat, drink alcohol and listen loud music.
The funny thing is that 15 years ago i was doing that too with my friends ... but maybe something changed inside of me ... and i started to hate doing that.
I became more selective.
The message was simple for me ... wherever the crowd is ... i must not be in there.
In fact i became too selective.
I started to like to spend my time only with the people that i am connecting with ... and avoid all the people that i do not like.
I actually ... even started to practice ... the solitude.
And now ... even if i like what i had decided ... i have moments when i wonder myself if i am wrong ... thinking and acting as that?!
Maybe it’s a new chapter of my life ... and no one should judge this tendency of mine ... but in the end ... it’s my life, my decisions and i will pay the price for those decisions.
Life has many paths that ... i should follow ... and this one ... maybe is a good one.
All i want is to spend time with people that i define as ... beautiful people.
People with good vibes.
People that have good intentions.
When i use the word “beautiful” ... i am speaking of their souls ... and i see the connections we have together.
So ... is it wrong to be selective?!
Well ... i just believe is difficult to stop drinking alcohol ... if you can’t forget about your friends and their unhealthy habits ... that spend all their time in the bars from your area.
At one point ... we just follow different paths.
Nothing more ... it’s quite a simple message even if is difficult to explain to all the ones around you ... that feel you don’t like them anymore.
And it might be true.
... but the message behind the message is just that you want a change in your life ... and even a big one ... and you need another environment for that.
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